Ultimate Attraction- Tips to Make Him Fall for You

Do you want to stop wasting your time trying to figure out if he’s Mr. Right? Are his mixed signals driving you NUTS?

Perhaps you’d like to know if he’s truly ready to commit, or what are the qualities that will make him fall for you. We’re happy to inform you that starting TODAY, you can put all those lingering questions to rest.

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Have you ever worked with, or have friends who just seem programmed to be at ease with themselves.but are drop-dead gorgeous at the same time? Has it blown your mind to think how EFFORTLESS it is for some women to be themselves while attracting men left and right??

Are they just blessed with dumb luck, or are they onto something you’re not?

Let’s tackle a few basic traits that generate surefire attraction with the opposite sex:

# 1: Treat yourself like a prize, and he’ll follow suit

An irresistible woman knows that she’s worthy enough of a man’s time, affection, and most of all, RESPECT. She never seeks out a man because she feels like a relationship will save her.

In fact, her life is so complete that she doesn’t need a guy to fix her or make her whole. A sassy woman is perfectly fine being single for the moment because she knows that Mr. Right will come along in due time.

There isn’t any need to go into a panic or lower your standards just to make room for a guy who won’t treat you the way you should be. More importantly, you don’t try attracting a man out of DESPERATION, because that isn’t exactly an endearing quality.

It’s absolutely essential to be a self-referenced woman who doesn’t seek a man out of social pressure.

She allows a man into her life because he makes her happy and adds to her personal growth.

Her relationship doesn’t define her life, but rather enriches it. The problem with a lot of women is that they often date a man for the former reason and not the latter.

As a result, they’ll act needy and clingy because they’re deathly afraid of being alone, even if it means lowering their standards and putting up with any guy that comes along.

Acting out of FEAR is never the basis for a healthy, long-term relationship.

Simply put, self-respect is done by placing value on yourself, and that in turn will prompt a quality man to treat you in the same manner. Otherwise, an attractive woman has no problems showing him the door and moving on with her life.

# 2: Just say “NO” to mind games

The folly of manipulating a guy is that whatever happiness you’ll get out of toying with his mind will be SHORT-LIVED. Once you’ve dealt him your best cards and he’s given up chasing after you, then there won’t be much reason to stick around.

So don’t bother adhering to a bunch of stupid rules. There’s plenty of harmful advice floating out there which are usually created out of specific experiences that don’t apply to everyone. You might hear that you should NEVER kiss on a first date, or that you must go to bed with him on the third one.

Please, these so-called rules are made by bitter and jaded people who want to protect themselves from getting burned again. Following these will only result in game-playing, and that is just another word for “manipulation”.

As I’ve just said, deception has no place in a healthy relationship, and anything based on a lie is bound to crumble in the future. That’s why it’s more important to be a balanced woman instead. That means no playing “hard to get”, nor should you present him with absolutely no challenge at all.

An attractive woman is who she is partly because she knows how to strike the middle ground: she doesn’t mess with a man’s head, but neither is she easily won over.

# 3: Get your head out of the clouds

You know, a lot of relationship problems are caused by having unrealistic standards. When you get caught up in fantasizing about IMPOSSIBLE stereotypes, you’re keeping quality men out of your life.

That’s because NONE of them will be able to measure up to the ideal (read: ridiculously perfect) man living inside that fantasy world of yours! Seriously, you should learn to temper your expectations with a sense of practicality.

In a parallel universe, all of the men you’ll meet have big arms, ripped abs, stunning chiseled looks, and inexhaustible wealth. You might think that meeting ALL of those qualities are the ticket to a great relationship, but it’s so much more than that.

Ask yourself: will I be able to have a happy relationship if my man didn’t have (insert trait here)? If so, then you can either make your standards more realistic or cross out that specific item completely.

If not, then keep it on your list and move on to your other standards.

Pare down your list and stick to the essentials. In twenty years from now, will a flawless physique still be important, as opposed to emotional maturity, faithfulness, or honesty? Think about that for a while.

You’re not living in a movie here – this is the real world you’re in. Don’t wait around for a valiant knight to come barging in and rescue you from the drudge of your daily life.

You’ll have to do that for yourself. That takes us to the next irresistible trait, which is to.

#4: Derive fulfillment and satisfaction from your life, not a relationship

While a sassy woman will make room for a worthy man in her life, she’s not about to turn her schedule upside-down just to accommodate his preferences. She has the guts to go on living the way she was before they met.

It’s very important not to lose focus on the other aspects of your life when you get into a relationship.

As we’ve discussed, your life should revolve around what works best for YOU.

Always have your priorities sorted and don’t develop the habit of dropping everything else just for him. While it’s ok to occasionally move things around for your guy, always leave time for yourself as well adequate room for personal growth.

That’s the problem with a lot of women – once a guy steps into the picture, everything goes haywire.

They forget their family and friends, slack off at work and basically drop off the face of the Earth.

That’s not a healthy way to live your life. Rather, a relationship should enhance the quality of your life and INSPIRE you to do even better.

Going back to what I mentioned before, whether or not you have a boyfriend at the moment shouldn’t affect the big picture. Balance your priorities by keeping him in the loop but not to the point where he’s already disrupting your daily existence.

Referring again to our middle-ground metaphor, learn to go out of your way when appropriate but at the same time, avoid appearing too scarce. Don’t hide from him on purpose just to see how far he’ll chase after you.

You’re better off getting a dog if you’re into that sort of thing. Remember what I told you about playing games!

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How To Be The Girl That Guys Want To Date

NEWS FLASH: Does climbing Mt. Everest seem easier compared to achieving greater self-confidence?  Perhaps you feel that being a bolder, more attractive version of yourself is too much of a tall order.

Are you one of those women who turn into a NERVOUS wreck when meeting a cute guy for the first time?  Worse, do you feel like you should be a totally different person or stuff down all wonderful the aspects of your personality?

If that’s the case, then you need to break out of this harmful train of thought.  The things you want to be are already inside you, but you’ll need a healthy amount of self-confidence for others to see it!
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When you think about the dating scene, what do you believe are the necessary “selling points” you need to get a guy’s attention?  It seems like some girls know something others don’t.

A lot of women end up scratching their heads thinking, “How does SHE do it?  It’s as if she does practically nothing but she’s NEVER short on dates!”

Well, the real trick to connecting with quality guys is by putting yourself on EQUAL footing with them.  After all, the kind of man you want needs to be on the same page as you are, so let’s go through three quick tips:

#1: Look after yourself
You may think that this is about being a flawless specimen of beauty or wallowing in vanity.
NOT at all.

What I’m stressing here is that you need to let everyone know you care enough to look your best.  And that’s not the same as physical perfection… guys just need to cotton on to the fact that you’re always on top of your looks.

The men that we squeal in delight over are considerate enough to look as good as they do.  Even if he isn’t without a few flaws here and there, you KNOW that he’s got it together.

Thus, we ladies should be game enough to make ourselves just as presentable as they are.  Would you date someone that had no regard for hygiene?  Any guy who’s let go of himself would lower his chances of finding a partner � that certainly applies to us as well!

Now, what details should we be concerned about?  First of all, being fresh and clean is paramount.  You may have an awesome personality, but you can help others see all of that by being in a PRESENTABLE package.

This is where regular showers and other daily habits such as flossing, brushing your teeth and shaving come in.  Why should we let cleanliness be an issue that’ll get in the way of meeting gorgeous men?

Try putting on a nice feminine fragrance that distinctly defines you.  Get beautified by spritzing on a light perfume that isn’t overpowering but pleasant enough to have guys at the first whiff!

Also, don’t be shy with lotions (like vanilla or other similarly enticing scents) to keep you looking AND feeling smooth.  There’s nothing like a feminine appearance of delicate softness to appeal to a guy’s masculine sensibilities!

This same approach goes with your sense of style.  Don’t be afraid to try on outfits that amplify your womanly attributes.

Looking good doesn’t have to mean baring too much.  A tasteful outfit should bring out your feminine essence, expose just ENOUGH skin, and accentuate your curves.  If you need help with this, employ the help of the people in your life who have a knack for style and fashion.

They’ll be able to recommend dresses, tops and blouses that will keep you classy and sensual at the same time.  The most elegant wardrobes allow a HINT of skin in the right places… any guy with the tiniest bit of imagination will be intrigued enough to take notice!

I’m sure you know at least one woman who happens to have fabulous hair that suits her perfectly.  You don’t have to imitate her style; instead ask her where she gets her hair done so the same salon can fine tune your own set of locks.

Everyone is different, so consulting with a stylist will help narrow down a customized appearance that complements your frame and personality.  Whether your hairstyle is straight, wavy or curly, the important thing is that it’s clean, lustrous and fully expresses your unique identity!

Of course, FITNESS has a lot to do with being a girl who has it together.  You don’t need a perfect body mass index, but it does matter that you are making an EFFORT in this regard.

As busy girls, we have a load of excuses to keep us from working out regularly.  However, if we recognize its importance in the general scope of dating (or your health for that matter), we can ALWAYS find time to work on ourselves, one way or another.

As for other matters, a dentist, dermatologist and other specialists who offer the kind assistance you need (be it your teeth, skin, etc) to really help polish the overall package.  Investing in their services is a necessary factor to letting everyone know you’re looking after yourself.

Generally, the sum of your beautifying efforts weighs a lot more than your imperfections.  What girl doesn’t have something they don’t like about themselves?

But it doesn’t matter since guys are willing to gloss over these infinitesimal details if they know you’re the kind of girl who doesn’t neglect herself.

In a parallel universe, we could look into each other’s inner beauty and that would be enough. However, the way we present ourselves still matters when it comes to making a memorable first impression!

#2: Have yourself to rely on
Neediness in an emotional and material sense is one of the biggest roadblocks to greater attractiveness.  Sure, guys may get the occasional kick out of being your knight in shining armor, but for the most part you’ll need to let them know you can live without their brute strength.

In many relationships, the balance of power is so lopsided against a woman’s favor that it allows bad stuff to seep in, such being taken for granted.  If a guy knows you can live WITHOUT him, he’ll naturally treat you better and it will breed MUTUAL respect.

It’s a human tendency to VALUE something you could lose at any given moment, right?  But of course I don’t recommend that you flaunt this fact in anyone’s face or use it as a way for a guy to submit to your whims.

I’m simply asking all the ladies out there to project a sense of independence.  Guys absolutely LOVE it when they can’t have a 100% hold on a girl… you have no idea what self-sufficiency can do to their “hunting” instincts.

Men are in it for the thrill of the chase, and knowing that he can’t “tame” you is plenty of fuel for his masculine drive to conquer, pursue and achieve.  Tapping into this wellspring (using your independent personality) is a great way to get a lot of dates!

# 3:  Get a life!
I hope you don’t take this the wrong way because all of us obviously *have* lives.  It’s just that sometimes, pursuing a relationship – or having one – can obscure the importance of having a WELL-BALANCED life.

Even if we are talking about improving your dating life, remember that you have a LOT of other things to be passionate about.  And this kind of attitude is what makes a woman more attractive and dateable in a guy’s eyes.

When you’re dedicated to improving yourself as a whole person, it just makes you more interesting and compelling to know.  Jumping into a relationship just so you can have one isn’t the right away to go about dating.

For your dating life to flourish, it needs a good, sturdy ground to stand on, namely a happening life filled with stuff you care about and ACTIVELY go after.

For instance, a guy is more likely to be riveted by a girl who has weekly brunches with her family, regularly attends a fitness class and excels at her chosen career.  Furthermore, this interesting woman may also have a bunch of other hobbies that open her up to opportunities to meet other similarly appealing people!

If you simply lived out the other parts of your life EQUALLY, chances are that this lucky guy will be dying to be part of your awesome life!

And the great thing about this is that you aren’t actively seeking a man’s validation or approval; living as a driven woman NATURALLY does that for you.

So my advice for you is to get involved in the other things that interest you ASIDE from cute guys.  In the end, we have ourselves to look after anyway � regardless of whether we’re single or not.

All in all, the way you treat yourself is a like a big, fat neon sign that tells the world how they should treat YOU.  That’s why the way we handle ourselves – be it in terms of looks, self-sufficiency or lifestyle – is a reflection of what kind of women we are.

And when you send the right kind of message to guys out there, you can be sure that these quality men are going to pick up on your signal!
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How To Make A Good First Impression With Men

How would YOU like to give EVERYONE you meet – friends, colleagues, potential boyfriends – a first impression they’ll never forget?

Wouldn’t it be great to naturally win just about anyone over because of your awesome personality?  Well, don’t pay any mind to your inner naysayer… these qualities are already in you, and NOW is the best time to bring them out!

This plain truth eludes a lot of women because it’s one of those “right-under-your-nose” kind of things.  Well, it’s high time you played up the best version of yourself and share it with the rest of the world!
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For the meantime however, I’d like to give you some pointers on how to jumpstart the inner transformation process TODAY.

Like I said, wouldn’t it be just peachy to leave folks no choice BUT to really dig you?  The thing about making a great first impression is that those who are good at it DON’T put too much thought about it.

They don’t think… they just DO.  In my experience, the single greatest obstacle to pulling this off is getting lost in your own head and trying to size up the situation too much.
You know what I mean: shutting out the person you’re talking to (along with the rest of the world) as your brain works overtime to second-guess everything you do!

“Did I laugh too loud?”
“Is there something in my teeth”
“Was I talking too fast?”
“Sheesh, my joke sure sounded lame!”
“I seem too eager… good luck hearing from him again!”

These kinds of thoughts are POISON to your attractiveness.  Being deathly afraid of being less than perfect is going to make you TENSE.

And as you know, TENSE equals UNATTRACTIVE.
So, to put it succinctly: RELAX.

Don’t let your nagging thoughts and doubts cloud your thinking.  Even if your emotions seem like chaos, you can “fake it ’til you make it”, as some like to say.

Let me clarify what that means: it ISN’T about putting up a PHONY personality that doesn’t really speak of who you really are.  On the contrary, it’s a matter of *temporarily* putting up a semblance of being calm and collected.

Nothing more, nothing less.
At first, acting cool as a cucumber may feel like putting on a new set of clothes that feels stiff and awkward at first.  However, this feeling will go away the longer you “wear” this attitude of confidence.

In the meantime, you’ll just have to put up with this new feeling so that your anxiety won’t get it the way of others seeing the REAL YOU.

In due time, you’ll eventually outgrow it and being relaxed WILL become a natural part of you!
But I’m getting ahead of myself here.  What are the things you should do to make people feel you’re relaxed and in control?

First of all, your body’s subtle visual cues will tip them off on what you’re feeling.  Body language goes a long way in generating the aura you’re aiming for.

So, what you can do is discreetly OBSERVE your confident friends or other people you’re often with.  Do you notice how laid-back their posture is?

Maybe you’ll see the way their feet are apart at just the right distance.  Not too close, but not too far.  There’s something about standing in a way that says you’re not about to apologize for the space you’re occupying…
…but at the same time, NOT being smug about it.

A good way to exude confidence is by standing slightly on one leg with your back propped up just enough to avoid slouching.  At the same time, you don’t want to be too upright like a solider either!

Also, resist the temptation to give away your nervous energy by fiddling with the straw in your drink or that handbag you may have on you.  You’ll need a place to tuck away those restless hands, but keeping your arms crossed isn’t a good idea (as it�s a very UNWELCOMING gesture!).

Instead, simply rest your hands on a stationary spot. If you’re sitting for instance, one hand could be resting on the table (if you’re sitting) while your other palm is flat your knee.
Feel free to mix and match the placing of your digits as long as they’ll serve to make you look like at ease.

Next on your to-do list: make proper eye contact.

My general rule of thumb here is to look away and occasionally make quick, casual glances at your conversational partner as you speak.  Then, hold a more consistent gaze when it’s their turn to talk.

This is a great way to make a connection because being able to visually communicate with someone ensures that there’s a healthy amount of rapport going on.  This aspect of self-confidence is often glossed over since some folks don�t realize how vital this is.

In general, this style of eye contact is flattering as your gaze implicitly tells them you’re listening to them.  Giving someone your attention in this manner is a subtle way to express interest and joy to be in their company.

 As women, we’re fortunate that prolonged eye-to-eye communication is well-received received by men AND fellow girls.  When we make eye contact, it’s generally perceived as a friendly gesture, so you can use this to your advantage!

When you think about it, looking away too much while a person is talking might send the wrong message.  It could look like you’re bored to tears… or worse, that their company isn’t good enough for your undivided attention!

Similarly, not making brief moments of eye contact while speaking suggests you’re ashamed or unsure of what you’re saying.  Visually reconnecting every now and then during your turn to speak implies confidence in your thoughts and opinions.

The last component of today’s first impression skill set is the ability to SMILE.  Sometimes, we get so caught up in looking so confident that our facial muscles have forgotten to follow suit!

That’s ok – we’ve all gone through times when our preoccupied minds have distracted us from expressing confidence with a smile.  Like the other basic things, it’s easy to overlook this simple but powerful gesture.

Now, it doesn’t have to be the ear-to-ear kind of grin that would make Jack Nicholson proud.  Again, you have to appear relaxed so your smile should reflect this attitude.

However, you also don’t want to do it the way salesmen do.  It’s the kind of smile that seems like a rigid, unreal mask that can be taken off as quickly as it was put on.

You know what I mean, right?  They’re smiling just because they HAVE to, and not from the pleasure of hanging out with you.

The type of smile you’ll need is the kind that GROWS on you during the course of the conversation.

Why?  It just seems more natural, relaxed, and NOT forced at all.

It’s an unspoken sign, but the message that the right smile gets across is worth a WHOLE conversation in itself.  So remember to ease up on the trigger, so to speak.

In fact, there’s a powerful effect to be found in not smiling much when meeting someone for the first time.  This allows you to create a connection by SLOWLY flashing those pearly whites after they’ve said something to “EARN” it.

Trust me, creating such an experience for that lucky person is quite meaningful – even if their CONSCIOUS mind doesn’t acknowledge it.

As I told you earlier, you have a better chance of people warming up to you when they feel that their presence has made you feel better.  So what I’m really saying is that your smile is a reflection of that JOY within you.

Hardly rocket science, right?  I’m telling you, this first impression stuff isn’t some great mystery that needs solving!

All the things we’ve covered today add up to a basic goal, which is to knock their socks off right from the GET-GO.

The first encounter is your best window of opportunity to permanently etch the kind of impression you want to make on someone.

The great thing about it all is that you have the means to make this happen, and having enough PRACTICE is what it boils down to.

You may know the basics now, but you don’t study confidence, you DO it.  Only then can you truly embody the irresistible woman that’s lurking within.

Therefore, I’d like you to try out these things in the REAL WORLD where you’ll truly LEARN what works and what doesn’t.  As I’ve talked about in the past, mingling with folks isn’t a matter of life or death.

Once you wrap your mind around the truth that you have virtually infinite chances to hone your people person skills, the pressure just melts right OFF.

So don’t sweat having to practice your awesome first impression-generating skills on the unsuspecting public!  Just go about your day as normal, and when the next person is poised to have little chat with you, have at it!
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Flirting With Men – How To Do It

Sometimes, the best opportunity to be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses.  Everyday, life is full of little chances that will help us become more of a “people person”, which of course leads to GREATER irresistibility!

Even the most mundane of situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!).  Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general.

Understandably, women who haven’t developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people won’t be used to kicking off a great conversation.  In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to these girls … or even downright SCARY.

All it really takes are the right ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks.  So for today, THIS is exactly what we’re going discover.
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Now, I’d like to familiarize you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally responsive to you.
This is where the importance of FLIRTING comes in.

You might think that flirting is about making raunchy innuendo.  Perhaps your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with sexual implications and the like.

Well, this is actually just a misconception that’s given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days.  The funny truth is that you can flirt with just about any stranger out there, whether he’s a guy OR a girl!

Before you get all confused with my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about.  It’s the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS within a person, regardless of gender.

Basically, the point of flirting is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes among the people that you meet WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!).

Although your intentions for flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you’ll also happen to attract guys in the process!

When you come across as a lady who has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that’s what good flirting is all about!

If you’re able to associate your presence with positive emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you.   With that said, how does a girl go about working on her flirtation skills?

#1:  Pay them a compliment

Before you start handing out words of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR idea of what this is all about.

Like what I said about sincerity earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior motive.  Anyone would be turned off by someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her.

It’s easy to feel this way if the person got a whiff of phoniness from a compliment.  For instance, people can tell if you’re firing off a flattering remark with NO THOUGHT at all… whereas EARNESTLY observing something important to the person and praising it accordingly will deeply resonate within him or her!

Although this seems like a doozy to pull off, it’s actually not as hard as it sounds.  A smart girl like you just needs to put her powers of observation to good use!

As I mentioned at the start of this newsletter, all you have to do is look out for things “hidden” in plain sight.  Greater AWARENESS is vital in situations like these, so keep your eyes peeled for things to compliment people on!

The next time you run into someone with whom you can talk to for a bit, try your hand at making him/her feel good with some well-placed words of praise.

Don’t feel like they have to like you because of it, what’s important is that you simply felt like saying something nice for the heck of it.  No more, no less!

For instance, if that new guy sitting next to your cubicle at work has a cool screensaver from the movie “Avatar” on his monitor, make a brief but meaningful comment if the situation allows it.
Saying something like “Hey, that’s a sweet screensaver… I guess you like the movie even more than I did!”

This is a great way to establish some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests.
Pretty soon, you might be adding more fuel to the fire by saying “I love how the film gave the expression -walking in someone else’s shoes- a new meaning!”

And who knows, it may serve as a starting point for a longer conversation!  In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it.

Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a sincere compliment goes a long way!

#2: Keep it light, keep it fun!

Now that we’ve established that flirting is meant to make others feel good, you also need to know about another important guideline.  You can’t generate those things within someone if you don’t feel good about yourself to begin with!

Anyone with an infectiously pleasant personality knows that having that a positive attitude begets the same vibe from the people around them.  That’s why you need to be “in the zone” when you’re mingling with the folks you run into.

You have to remember that your level of energy must be just as high (if not higher) than the person you’re talking to.  Otherwise, your flirting efforts will be a lost cause.

But that doesn’t mean you have to transform into a hyperactive version of yourself… you just have to go by a few important pointers to make sure that you’re always in top form!

For instance, thinking too much is one of the biggest positive attitude-killers that will keep you from being at your most flirtatious.  Some women have a tendency to let the inner chatter in their heads DISTRACT them.

I’m sure anyone at some point in their social lives has made the mistake of trying TOO HARD to sound witty or clever.  The end result of this habit is that you end up thinking of what to say next without bothering to LISTEN to the person in front of you.

Why pressure yourself and act like your life depended on it?  It doesn’t work that way!

This line of thinking defeats the very purpose of flirting, which is to establish rapport by being playful, relaxed and fun-loving.  Driving yourself mad with thoughts like “I hope this guy likes me” will only keep you from giving him your full attention (which is a very ATTRACTIVE thing to do!).

So do yourself a favor and just keep your ears peeled to the conversation.  That’s the best way to keep the fun going!

Let me give you an example.  Pretend that the guy you’re talking to just told you about a great experience he had camping out with his buddies by the lake over the weekend.

Maybe he mentioned that he got a kick out of momentarily leaving his hectic city life behind and relaxing in the wilderness.  Paying ATTENTION to a key point such as this would then allow you to share some of your own thoughts to complement his.

Then you can say something in a similar train of thought: “Wow, that sounds like a lot of fun!  You know, sometimes I need a little peace and quiet myself when the week gets crazy… so every now and then I do my own thing by chilling out at home, turn up my Zen music and curl up with a good book!”

Bingo!  Not only did you indirectly praise his interests, you’ve also created some excellent common ground between you two!

And you weren’t even trying to impress him by topping his story; all you really did was to take something he finds important and give it right back at him!

To recap: DON’T psych yourself out by thinking that a failed attempt at flirting is going to be the death of you!

Relax into the moment and keep a cool head about yourself.  What should a sassy girl like you be afraid of anyway?

Flirting is a playful way of testing the waters with a guy.  A lighthearted verbal exchange is meant to let you know if your personalities are going to mesh well.

If not, it’s certainly NOT any great loss on your part so there’s nothing to be freaked out about!

As far as the big picture is concerned, taking these little hiccups in stride by staying POSITIVE is actually an attractive trait to have.  More importantly, the motivation for flirting is to simply share your joy for living with others!

And that’s a lot easier to do than wanting people to like you.  Go for an impression that tells people, “I’m having FUN talking with you” instead of something off-putting like “Won’t you please like me?”

If you want to keep the things fun, DON’T let your mind wander into thoughts about the OUTCOME of your conversation.

What happens AFTER the conversation is irrelevant.  The important thing is that you’re living IN THE MOMENT, totally focused on the person you’re chatting with.

Did he laugh at your jokes?  Great!  Did he give you the cold shoulder?  Great!

See, it doesn’t matter because this doesn’t have any bearing on who you are as a woman.  The great thing about these experiences is that you LEARN from your accomplishments (or mistakes) every time!

So the next time you head out of the house, don’t forget to ditch the negative self-talk and leave your unreasonably harsh inner critic at the door!

The general idea is to open up to the rest of humanity out there and welcome the chances that come your way.

The broad spectrum of your cheerful personality is going affect everyone around you:  your family, friends, colleagues and of course, the potential Mr. Right’s waiting to meet you!
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This article comes to you courtesy of Meet Your Sweet
If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet: “Get A Guy Guide.”
If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.
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Overcoming Myths About Men


Have you ever found yourself making the same mistake over and over simply because you didn’t know any better at the time?
We’re all human – from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.

These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster!
And you know what? This isn’t a bad thing in itself because learning from our mistakes adds to our body of knowledge. However, wouldn’t you want to AVOID making these boo-boos if you COULD?

This is why you need to UNLEARN any incorrect notions that could cloud your better judgment.

Sometimes, it just takes another pair of eyes to identify the mindsets that could drive you towards perfectly preventable mistakes.

How many times have you gotten into a situation that yielded bad results because you had the wrong ideas in mind?

Certain perceptions of men can mess up your chances of having a great relationship with them. When we assume given things about the opposite sex, your actions could PREVENT the relationship from going in a healthy direction.

Thus, let’s take a look at a couple of the most common myths about men which you need to steer clear of:
#1: Guys are into “low maintenance” women.
Actually, this wouldn’t be a problem if the term “low maintenance” wasn’t misconstrued in the first place. Oftentimes, when some misguided women hear this adjective, they equate it to having no opinion of their own and being a complete PUSHOVER.

This attitude reminds me of the 1950’s housewife archetype often portrayed in TV sitcoms of the same era.

You know what I’m talking about: Sugary-sweet on the outside, but brimming with unspoken emotions on the inside.

She’s the one who’s afraid to mess up a perfectly good relationship by speaking up too much. This is the kind of girl who has regrettably shut off her ability to express her feelings in a healthy way.

Sadly, this glaring misconception is unconsciously driving many women to behave in a very NEEDY way. In the back of their minds, they take the idea of being low-maintenance to such an EXTREME that they’ve become a mere shadow of their former selves.

Being “low maintenance” in the truest sense of the word is defined by REALISTIC qualities.
This is a well-adjusted, reasonable person who doesn’t throw a fit when her partner unwittingly makes the occasional offhand remark.
(And I emphasize “OCCASIONAL”, as opposed to “habitually”, but anyway…)

This is also the kind of girl who can properly manage her feelings MOST of the time and keeps emotional meltdowns to a reasonable minimum. When it comes to mood swings, low maintenance women don’t often have these and only under the most stressful of circumstances.

All in all, this is an ideal picture of what low maintenance is all about.
Therefore, it’s NOT about being so laid-back to the point where you’re frazzled and out of breath from trying to please a guy’s every whim… …or even TOLERATE selfishness.

And being low maintenance is definitely a far cry from transforming into a disturbingly submissive version of yourself.

Remember, there’s a difference between a cool girl that doesn’t get upset over the little things… …and the emotional SLAVE who doesn’t have any purpose aside from sacrificing her dignity and independence in the name of “love”

The mentality you should have is that a relationship is NOT the only thing you have going for you.
If you would make a map of your life right now, would you say it’s dominated by huge chunks of land exclusively reserved for a boyfriend?

Or does this map have equally allocated areas meant for your family, friends, career and hobbies?
Even though we’re always talking about how to get into a good, healthy relationship, you have to understand that this is only ONE PART of your multi-faceted self.

The SUM of your pursuits in life defines who you are.

If you build your universe around whether you’re single or not, your resulting actions will create a very unattractive impression of neediness.

You wouldn’t want anyone to believe that having a boyfriend is the ONLY thing that motivates you in life, right? You know you’re TOO GOOD to act like that.

Don’t get me wrong – it’s WONDERFUL to have a partner who adores and respects you. That crazy rush you feel when you fall in love can greatly inspire you do great things in the other areas of your life.

However, my point is that you should still retain a good sense of PERSPECTIVE when you *do* get into a relationship. What that means is that you’d be just as fine even if you didn’t have a boyfriend at the moment.

Your life was just as fine before you met him, and you can certainly leave if you’re not being treated the way you should be.

Of course, I don’t mean this in an arrogant way nor am I suggesting that our partners should be the pushovers instead!

All I'm saying is that you shouldn’t be scared to leave the comfort zone of your relationship if it isn’t helping your personal growth.

Also, in no way should you cover up your true feelings by waiving your right to SPEAK UP if you need to (i.e. when the terms are unfavorable).

A good relationship is always a TWO-WAY street, so don’t let the low-maintenance myth (or rather, misconception) tell you otherwise.

#2: Falling in Love is Eternal Bliss Guaranteed
The other common trap women fall into is the assumption that those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings you first get when you meet someone will remain CONSTANT in the relationship.

However, this just isn’t going to happen. Even happily married couples who’ve been together for decades know that their initial infatuation for each other evolved into a deeper and more MATURE sense of loving.

This kind of love goes beyond the initial rush that all new couples go through. This is the love that’s weathered countless emotional storms, power struggles and other CHALLENGES.

The end result is a rock-solid relationship that doesn’t constantly require you to feel the heart-quickening rush found in infatuation.

But there’s no reason to panic over this fact of life. You shouldn’t be afraid of outgrowing this primary stage in your relationship since better things are headed your way.

Over time, the falling in love stage will eventually be replaced by something more powerful in the long run. It’s just that you’re going to go through a series of trials as a couple before you get there.

Don’t buy into the myth that loving your guy as you do now will be enough to get you through the years. Remember that neither of you are perfect; somewhere along the way, your “little” differences are going to catch up to you.
(I’ve heard of couples breaking up over their brand of toothpaste, but hopefully your own relationship won’t go to that extreme!)

I’ll be honest with you here: you’re going to FIGHT tooth and nail over things like this, and you’re going to wake up and smell the coffee sooner or later. But power struggles are NORMAL after the familiarity settles in.

If you can accept the reality that love will inevitably undergo a transformation over time, then you’ll have no reason to worry about the growing pains in your relationship.

Otherwise, insisting that everything will run smoothly or take care of itself will BLIND you to speedbumps in the future.

Of course, I’m not saying you shouldn’t enjoy the moment because being HAPPY is the point of having a relationship, right?

You just have to be aware that things will change eventually. However, you can stay happy as long as you’re cool with having to deal with the reality check phase in due time.
(No need to worry your pretty little self about stuff UNTIL you have to!)

All in all, finding happiness in a man’s arms is best done by keeping a REALISTIC perspective no matter how head over heels you may feel at a given moment.

There are a lot of impractical beliefs and notions that we women are unnecessarily exposed to in these modern times. Like it or not, picking up unrealistic perceptions of love and dating is just a TV show or DVD rental away.

In this confusing sea of misinformation, a sassy girl definitely needs to keep her wits afloat!
For the most part, whatever we read in books or see onscreen are distilled versions of life at best. It doesn’t necessarily reflect what happens in REAL situations!

So we can’t project unrealistic fantasies onto real life and NOT expect to run into problems!
The real world naturally includes the complexities of human behavior. You need to keep this in mind when considering what men want from us and what we should expect from them.
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If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.
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How to Talk To Men- Conversation Tips Women Should Know

Everybody has sticking points, whether it’s work, relationships or life in general. But that’s fine and dandy because the learning process is what makes us better women.

Perhaps you’re struggling with certain behaviors or fears that might be keeping you from making the most out of your love life. Not to worry though; author Mirabelle Summers has created the ultimate game-free guide on how to do just THAT:

The “Get A Great Guy Guide” is just the thing you need to achieve the breakthrough that you’ve been waiting for. With its sensible, no-nonsense and down-to-earth advice for the sassy, modern girl, finding AND holding on to a quality man will be a cinch!

Now then – one of the most common stumbling blocks to more romance in a woman’s life is a simple lack of conversational know-now. The good news is that this can be LEARNED and immediately applied in your everyday life!

Especially while you’re face-to-face with a potential lover!
Oftentimes the problem is that some well-meaning girls overlook the importance of having the right communication style. It’s not that they WANT to be boring; they’re merely unaware of how to hold a conversation.

No sensible gal is going to get up in the morning and tell herself, “I wonder how I’m gonna BORE the socks off of that cute stranger I’m going run into at the coffee shop today?”
If you want to become a better conversationalist, it’s important to consider if you’ve grown accustomed to certain patterns of speech that are actually counterproductive. Sometimes, you need to step back and ask if you’ve fallen into certain habits which you’ve numbed yourself to over time.

So the first step towards any form of improvement is SELF-AWARENESS. Think about the way you normally carry a conversation with a guy and ask yourself if your style could use some polishing.
Of course, I don’t want you to start beating yourself up if you feel that the way you talk to men isn’t as attractive as you might want it to be. Like I said earlier, there’s always room for improvement, and it’s definitely a good thing to know EXACTLY which areas can be improved.
With that said, I want you to go over the following tip you can use to enhance your communication style:

# 1: Rapport is Key
It may sound like the simplest thing in the world to say, but the fact is lots of perfectly adorable women have a hard time doing this.

It’s mainly because they only have a VAGUE idea of what rapport is, so naturally you can’t create something you can’t really put a pin on!

So let’s clear up the fog surrounding this topic and identify what it is exactly. In a nutshell, having rapport is about having a CONNECTION with someone.

You know how you hook up your iPod or mobile phone to your computer, and they suddenly have this mutual understanding? It’s kind of like that, but on a DEEPER level.

Let me give you a clearer picture: if you were at a party packed with all manner of gorgeous, articulate and friendly men, which one of them are you likely to REALLY fall for?

Since they’re all visually and mentally appealing, you might have a hard time figuring out which guy suits you. Chances are the one who naturally understands you will be the man you’d want to date.

Why is that? Well, doesn’t it feel just GREAT when a person instinctively senses where you’re coming from?

I’m sure you’ve met at least one person in your life who you inexplicably feel drawn to. That’s because that person seems to perfectly understand and echo back your own opinions or feelings.

That sense of being connected is what rapport is all about. Fortunately, it’s actually not hard at all to do this in your daily conversations.
The first thing to keep in mind is that you need to be on the ‘same page’ as the person you’re talking to. There are easy ways to do this.

For example, keep an ear out for specific concepts or values that are personally close to the person you’re in a conversation with. If he brings up that it’s important to him to have some quiet time everyday, store that away for future reference.

Later on you can echo back that same concept by telling him about how YOU like to spend your alone time: “At the end of the day I like to spend an hour or so curling up with a good book and a nice warm cup of chamomile tea. It really helps decompress after a crazy day, you know what I mean?”

Step back and watch his eyes light up like a Christmas tree! By taking something close to his heart and giving it back to him in a genuine way, your words will make quite the IMPACT on him.

So, rapport really has to do a lot with speaking the same ‘language’. Now of course, I don’t mean you have to start mimicking everything he’s saying like a little parrot, but rather do it in an EMOTIONAL sense.

Discovering and talking about the values that resonate with you BOTH is a way to speak the same language.

When you think about it, we often adapt our modes of speech depending on the context we’re in.

For example, you wouldn’t talk to your friends, family, colleagues, or elders in the same EXACT way would you?

So don’t think that you’re being a phony by making an effort to speak in the same way that he does. You’re simply getting into the practice of communicating in a way that’s APPROPRIATE to the situation.
And when it comes to chatting up gorgeous guys, a meeting of the minds is best done through rapport-building speech patterns!

# 2: Switch Off Your Brain
Don’t get me wrong, the kinds of guys who are worth your time are into women of SUBSTANCE. And certainly, this next conversational tip is not about acting air-headed or ditzy.

All I’m advising you do is keep your sexy brain from going into overdrive! A common mistake that intelligent women often commit is to think too much about certain things.

They get so caught up in their own world of thoughts that they’ll come off as aloof or distracted, when in reality they’re just petrified from FEAR of not knowing what to say next.

If you don’t want your brain from stalling on you, then you have to quiet your thoughts and shut out the nagging distractions in your pretty little noggin.

The attraction-killing thoughts I’m talking about are those coming from the inner critic trying to sabotage your conversation. Sometimes, we make the mistake of mentally scolding ourselves after saying something that felt out of place or unfunny.

Other times, we’re lost in a maze of thoughts on what to say next or get bogged down in a swamp of self-consciousness.

When you feel your brain going in this direction, acknowledge what’s going on and DROP these mental distractions.

There’s a handy little trick you can do in case your attention is drifting off to la-la land: instead of obsessing about how you look in his eyes or what he might be thinking, simply divert your attention to HIM.

It’s a girl’s best defense against looking aloof or detached from the conversation (or from this plane of reality for that matter!). So remember to shut off this part of your brain, and you’ll do just fine.
On another note however, sometimes it’s the guy you’re talking to that’s feeling self-conscious. If that’s the case, then don’t act or talk in any way that might give away you’re AWARE of it.
Just play it cool and don’t dwell on the vibe he’s giving off. It’ll only make things more awkward if you let his state affect your own.

# 3: Humor is Your Best Friend
Maybe you’re still feeling each other out and you’re trying to get a handle on how to connect to this hunk of a guy. But the awkward flow of your conversation is creating a major interference in your connection so you�re having a hard time ‘broadcasting’ your signal.
Fear not, friend! The quickest way to clear up all that ‘static’ is by creating a private joke which you can share with him. When you both have some knee-slapping ground to start on, this accelerates the rapport-building process.

My long-time friend Marcus has a great story to illustrate my point. He says:
“One of my first jobs was a freelance product writer for all sorts of health merchandise. During one assignment I was talking with this guy who was telling me about the benefits of a sports bracelet that supposedly reduces muscular fatigue. I had to put on the bracelet and pretended how less tense my arm felt as I was stretching it. Monique, his pretty sales assistant, was visibly chuckling at how funny I looked during the product demo (though she tried her best to hide it).”
Marcus was then able to use this funny incident as an inside joke when he started chatting up
Monqiue. To her delight, he referred to the silly arm-stretching debacle several times during their conversation.

To his benefit, Monique was game enough to tease him about it when they eventually started dating. The moral of the story here is that when used properly, humor serves as a great bridge between two people.

Heck, any doctor knows about the therapeutic effect of laughter. One way to bring on the charm is to put your man on a natural high by cracking a joke or making a witty comment!
Making people laugh will make people (cute guys included) want to be around you to get a dose of your feel-good charisma.

Of course, there’s a big difference between laughing at a joke and MAKING one. However, appearing to be effortless at humor isn’t as hard as you might think.

Don’t assume you need to transform yourself into a standup comic at the drop of a hat.
Generally, a good punch line is the result of properly setting up the joke beforehand. If you need to explain the punch line after delivering it, it means you didn’t build enough suspense first.

(Think about how some characters on TV bumble a perfectly good joke by explaining too much and adding a “get it, get it?” at the end.)

A good way to build up a joke is by keeping a relatively straight face and suppressing any snickers before dropping the punch line on him. Otherwise there won’t be any escalation.

That’s what comedic timing is all about: buttering up the audience and then BAM, you get the drop on them with a well-placed punch line!

Notice how comedians like Conan O’Brien or Tina Fey churn out the funnies. They like to talk about a mundane news item (the set-up) and then making a zany comment about it (the payoff).
As an aside, avoid making any pop culture references that might alienate or confuse the person you’re talking to. It’s good to be mindful of the particular person in front of you so he can better relate to your “material”.

However, don’t worry about making leaps and bounds in this particular area of conversation. Try adapting these habits of humor little by little into your speech.

Once you hit your stride and finally struck a guy’s funny bone, you’ll notice how easier it is to keep him laughing with a follow-up joke!

One last way to be funny without overdoing it is by doing the “pretend seriousness” routine. A little lighthearted irony goes a long way with certain folks!

Let’s pretend that your friend introduced you to this incredibly cute guy who happens to be just into music as you are. So halfway through the conversation he confesses to not having heard about a certain band you absolutely adore.

Take advantage of this opportunity by *playfully* retorting, “Tell me you’re kidding. Otherwise, I’m gonna have to drag you to my place and make you listen to my (name of band) records until you see the light. Seriously!”

Admittedly, this approach might not work on everyone, but if he seems like the guy who’s game enough to go along with the fun, then give it a shot!

#4: Converse With an OPEN Ear
Some women might think that listening is just a simple matter of hearing what the other person is telling them. Truth is, this basic skill we’ve been taught to use over the years is often taken for granted.

Sometimes, we find ourselves zoning out a bit (refer to tip # 2) when we should be PAY ATTENTION in the full sense of the verb. A typical mistake is to listen on a superficial level and merely use the time the guy is talking to think of something to say.
This might sound like common sense, but I have this to share: you’d have a better chance of saying something worthwhile if you truly listened to what the other person just said.
I’ve told countless friends and colleagues that your genuine attention is a very powerful tool for conversational success! Really listening to his jokes and stories is a simple but effective way to make him feel good about himself.

And what red-blooded man wouldn’t want to be around a sassy girl that he can associate his GOOD FEELINGS with?

The gift of showing real interest is the direct path to greater rapport in ANY sort of conversation you’re in. Although our general interest here is to attract men through a good chat, we also have to consider the big picture here.

An attractive woman is someone who can have a great conversation with just about anybody. When you have a POSITIVE attitude towards the rest of humankind, it’s an indication of how you’d be on a date.
…or as a girlfriend.
If you’re there to talk with ANYONE purely for the pleasure of their company… and NOT because you want their approval… then that sincerity will naturally show.
People (hunks included) just tend you like more when you want to hang out with them with NO strings attached.

So what I’m saying here is that you shouldn’t just limit your awesome conversational skills to men alone. Find an opportunity to flex your social muscles and chat up a storm with the next person you run into!

It doesn’t matter if it’s the nice old lady at the library, the friendly cashier at your favorite coffee place, or your fellow students at yoga class. Every person out there offers a chance for you to become a more sociable person.

Trust me, this mindset is the sure-fire path to becoming drop-dead gorgeous in the long run! What have you got to lose after all?

And part of developing the right mindset is by expanding your knowledge and beliefs about dating, courtesy of Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Great Guy Guide.”

When you think about it, the cost of failure is pretty much ZERO, so get out there and work it!
This article comes to you courtesy of Meet Your Sweet

If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Great Guy Guide.”

If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.
No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!
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7 Qualities Men Find Irresistible in Women

With the growing population of single women, finding eligible single men could be a challenge.
The competition is high and to get ahead of other women, you have to possess the qualities men find irresistible in women.

Men who are looking for a long-term relationship are looking for certain qualities in a woman. So what are these qualities that can make you a man magnet?

Honesty. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is honesty. Men need a woman who can be trusted because trust is important for a relationship to last and an honest woman is definitely someone who is trustworthy. Men who want to commit to a long-term relationship like marriage would give his heart and trust to someone who is trustworthy. Honesty is an important trait that most men are looking for in a woman.

Kindhearted. It is common for women to be nice but to be truly kindhearted is a trait that is not common to most women. A kindhearted woman is compassionate, understanding and forgiving and these traits can be very irresistible to most men.

Faithful. Loyalty or faithfulness is one of the qualities men find irresistible in women because men want a woman who will stick by his side through thick and thin. He needs a woman who will not be swayed or will not abandon him no matter what happens. Lack of faithfulness or cheating is one of the reasons why relationships do not last and men who want to commit to a relationship want to be with a faithful woman.

A woman who think before saying or doing something. Most men admire women who are mature enough to choose their battles. It can be a big turn off to see a woman who always engage herself on useless fights or arguments. A woman who takes time to think before saying or doing something is truly irresistible. She would ask herself questions like “Is this worth fighting or arguing about?” This kind of woman is the type who will choose to compromise to solve relationship issues. Such kind of woman is someone most men wish to have by their side.

A woman who believes in his man. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is that she’s someone who believes in him. There is a saying that behind every successful man is a woman. If a woman believes in his man’s dreams and believes that he can accomplish anything he desires, this becomes his driving force to succeed. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who believes in his man. A woman who supports and encourages his man to be the best he can be is truly irresistible.

A woman who value herself. One thing that women should know about men is that men love expensive or valuable things. When it comes to women, men want a woman who view herself as someone of high or exceptional value. One of the qualities men find irresistible in women is their attitude toward themselves. A woman who treats herself as someone who is valuable is admirable.
Women who know that they are valuable are happy with themselves. They are happy for who they are and they do not believe that they need to conform to a specific set of standards to be loved by men. Of course nobody is perfect and everyone is lacking on something but having flaws or lacking on something does not make her feel less of a person because she knows that she is capable of obtaining whatever she lacks and can improve herself. A woman of high value is confident and in control of her life. She knows her worth and she knows what she wants.

A woman who takes care of herself. Men view women who can take care of herself as someone who can be good in taking care of him and their future children. One evident that a woman can take care of herself is that she can maintain a healthy weight, has an excellent hygiene and knows how to groom herself. Although not all men are into a woman’s physical appearance, we have to accept the fact that physical appearance plays an important role in attracting men. Most men are initially attracted to a woman’s physical appearance and to get a man’s interest in the first place, you have to be presentable and physically appealing.

Knowing the qualities men find irresistible in women can help you achieve success in getting the man of your dreams. If you are still clueless on what to do in attracting men visit Make Him Desire You. 



How to Become Attractive Physically

Although it is true that men are not always after the physical appearance of women, it cannot be denied that most men are initially attracted to physical beauty. Men are visual beings and women who are attractive physically never failed to get their attention. Before women could mesmerize men with their non-physical attractive traits, it is important that their physical appearance is something that can get the attention of men. You do not have to be a beauty queen to be attractive. The following tips can be very helpful for you to become attractive physically.

Long shiny locks. Long shiny hair can help you become attractive physically. Your hair is your crowning glory and having long lustrous hair can help you enhance your physical appearance. Some men prefer long shiny straight hair and others prefer long wavy shiny locks. Whether it’s straight or wavy, one thing is for sure, most men find women with long and shiny hair attractive and sexy. Natural and touchable long shiny hair is more appealing to men than perfectly groomed hair maybe because most men want the idea of getting their fingers lost in the tresses of a woman’s long hair.

Smile more often. What is the use of a beautiful face if you don’t smile often? Even an average looking woman can become attractive physically if she often smile. Men find women who often smile more attractive maybe because a smile signifies that a person is friendly and kind. A smile is also a sign of submission. Most men are drawn to women who are approachable, kind and someone who can submit to them. The perfect make-up that a woman can wear to make her appear more beautiful and attractive is a smile.

Maintain a physically fit figure. Although there are men who are attracted to women on the heavy side, most men admire women who are physically fit. Physically fit women are not only pleasant to look at but they give men the message that they are healthy, disciplined and can take care of themselves. Women who are physically fit are also happier and less insecure with their appearance. Some women who are on the heavy side have low self-esteem and not happy with their weight problems. Maintaining a physically fit figure can help you become attractive physically.

Maintain a good hygiene. A beautiful face and a good figure can be ruined by a poor hygiene. Maintain a good hygiene from head to toe and put attention to small details. Always keep your hair clean and shiny. Brush your teeth 2-3 times a day and floss regularly to avoid bad breath.  Take care of your skin to make it look healthy. Keep your nails clean or get pedicures and manicures regularly. Shave frequently. Always look fresh and clean.

It is true that physical beauty is something that will fade with time but let’s face it, being attractive physically plays an important role in getting the interest of most men. Physical beauty along with your non-physical good traits can help you become more attractive to the opposite sex.

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How to Become a Quality Woman that Men are Looking For

Men are initially attracted to physical beauty. Who is not? Even women go crazy for handsome guys. But after satisfying your eyes, then what’s next? Men who are looking for long-term relationships look for more than physical beauty. You will be surprised to know that what most men are looking for in a woman has nothing to do with looks, boobs or body measurements. If a man seriously want to commit and want a lasting relationship, he wants a woman of quality. Become a quality woman and you will find a quality man.

To be able to become a quality woman, you must know the traits that a woman of quality must possess. So what are those qualities?

To become a quality woman you must know how to listen. Men do not want to be nagged when they have problems or when something is bothering them but they want someone who will just listen to them and that means a woman who really knows how to listen. It takes time for men to be able to verbalize what’s troubling them, what’s on their minds or what they feel. They need time to process everything before they can decide to talk about it. While he’s processing everything, he will appreciate it more if you will let him know that you are there and ready to listen when he’s ready to talk about it. Men like women who are supportive and know how to really listen.

To become a quality woman you have to be happy and fulfilled. It is important that you are accomplished and fulfilled as a person. You enjoy your job and the things that you do. It can be a great burden for men if you will look for that happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. It is true that relationships do give us happiness and fulfillment but on your own you have to be someone who is fulfilled and happy about who you are.

To become a quality woman you have to be a good cook.  There is a saying that “the only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, although we know that it’s not the only way, we do know that it’s one of the ways to win a man’s heart. If a woman can feed her man with a good meal, it is an indication how nurturing she is and it is a sign that she will be a good wife and mother. The effort to learn how to be a good cook and the effort to cook for him can definitely make his heart flutter in appreciation of your thoughtfulness.

To become a quality woman you must know how to  laugh. A woman with a good sense of humor is definitely attractive and men want to be around them. Life is already full of stress and worries so why would he choose to be with someone who is too serious, uptight and do not know how to share a good laugh? Stop being a worry freak and lighten up. Learn to laugh and throw some good jokes.

To become a quality woman you have to be comfortable with yourself including your flaws. With the advancement of science, everything can be changed now. Most men prefer more real women who are comfortable with their own skin and their flaws. Most men find women who are not bothered having small cup size or a not so perfect nose admirable. Most men still want to bring home to their moms that simple girl next door, the kind of girl who loves to smile and her great personality outshines her flaws. This kind of woman focus more on the things she have and the things she can do best than the things she cannot do or don’t have.

To become a quality woman you must be caring and loving. Saying “I Love You” is a good thing but words without actions will not work. Men want women who do not only gospel about love but who actually show how to be caring and loving. A woman who go out of her way to care for someone is really admirable. Being kind and caring to the people around you is an indication how loving and caring you are and these are the qualities most men are looking for.

To become a quality woman you have to know how to compromise. Men admire women who are willing to find the middle ground to find a solution acceptable to both sides. Men find this quality more important than any physical beauty. Women who are willing to compromise are more attractive and men can see themselves having a happier and lasting relationship with women of this quality.

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5 Signs That He’s Into You

Most men are not vocal with their feelings and it is hard to know what’s on their minds. It would be really great if you can read his mind to know what he’s thinking especially if he’s someone you admire or like. Fortunately, there are ways to read a man. Although you cannot read minds, there are tell-tale signs that you can observe if a man likes you. So what are the signs that he’s into you?

It’s in his eyes. He’s eyes will give him away, as the saying goes, the eyes are the window to one’s soul. The eyes cannot lie and they can communicate more than you’ll ever know. The pupils of our eyes change in size depending on our state of mind and emotions. If a man for instance feels excited in the presence of the woman he likes or attracted to, his eyes pupils will dilate or grow larger. If the eyes pupils constrict or become smaller, it is not a good indication because the pupils constrict if we see something we didn’t like. This is an involuntary and uncontrollable response that we cannot hide. If you are observant, you can discreetly observe his eyes while he’s talking to you. His gaze will also tell you if he’s into you. Prolonged gaze will tell you that he’s into you. He likes to keep you in his line of sight and wants to gaze at you all the time but once you caught him gazing at you, he will immediately look away. You will see the signs that he’s into you through his eyes.

You make him nervous. When a guy likes you, your mere presence makes him nervous. His heart beats rapidly that makes him nervous when you are around. Most men are in control of their emotions and they hardly show their feelings but he will find it hard to stay calm in your presence and you will somehow notice that he’s nervous. Fidgeting and sweaty palms are some of the signs that he’s really nervous. This is one of the obvious signs that he’s into you.

He wants to be near you. He literally wants to be near you in every opportunity. When talking to you he’ll lean towards you in a subtle way to somehow let you know that he wants to get closer to you. He wants to touch you in a delicate way maybe like rub his elbows to you, touch the back of your hands or put his hands on your shoulder while talking to you. You’ll be surprised that you often run into him in places where you usually hang out that you’ll think if this is just accidental. He sticks around and likes to do activities with you for no particular reason. These are all indications that he wants to be near you and wants to connect with you. These are all signs that he’s into you.

He’s listens and very attentive to you. Most men are not good at listening to women, they may argue but most women feel that way but if he stops talking about himself and wants to listen to you then that means something. He listens and interested even in small details about you. What’s even surprising is that he remembers even the small unimportant details about you. These are signs that he is listening and interested in you. These are signs that he’s into you.

He opens up and express his feelings. Unlike women, most men cannot verbalize their feelings. Women can easily open up, cry their heart out and express their emotions but men do not usually do that. Men are not that good in verbally expressing their feelings, they usually express their feeling in action and not verbally. If they get angry, instead of verbalizing their anger, they will just punch things or just keep quiet. But when a man opens up to you and talk about personal things like for instance, his feelings about the death of his mother which is something he never opened up to anybody but you, these are signs that he’s emotionally connected to you, these are signs that he’s into you. To be able to open up or articulate their emotions is something that is not normal to most men and if he can do that with you then you are someone special to him.

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7 Qualities that Men Find Attractive in Women

Dating is getting tougher now with the increasing rate of single women. Almost half of the U.S. population are single and single men are outnumbered by single women. There were reports that in America, for every 100 single women, there are only 88 single men available and so if you didn’t fit in the qualities that men are looking for, chances are, you might remain single for a long time until you found your match. To increase your chances of getting noticed by men, it is important to know the qualities that men find attractive in women. Knowing these qualities will help you get ahead of other women.

So what are the qualities that men find attractive in women?

A woman who loves life. A woman who enjoys life and sometimes playful but not to the point where she compromises her dignity as a woman is attractive. It can be really refreshing to be with a woman who wants to enjoy life. She can be adventurous sometimes and can set aside her fears just to try something new. It is not about being fearless that is attractive but it is the bravery to set aside her fears and try something new that is admirable. She is truly enjoying and living life. One of the qualities that men find attractive in women is being someone who loves life.

A woman who is honest. It is true that honesty is the best policy and men who want a long-term relationship are looking for women who possess the trait of being honest. Be truthful on who you are and what you want out of life. If you will pretend to be someone you are not just to attract men, it will not work. Men do not want to be deceived. Honesty is one of the qualities that men find attractive in women. But this doesn’t mean that you have to divulge everything about you and your past when you first meet a man. Most men would lose interest on women who are too open and too available. Being mysterious helps heightened his interest and curiosity about you but if he starts asking you questions about your life, be honest and truthful.

A woman with a sense of style. Men are visual and they are attracted to women who has a good sense of style. A stylish woman doesn’t mean trendy or a woman who easily hops in the latest craze in fashion. A stylish woman is a woman who dresses well, knows how to groom herself and can carry herself well. She dresses appropriately and knows how to flatter her attractive physical features. She doesn’t just follow the trend because trends come and go but style doesn’t. She can be simple and yet stylish.

A confident woman. It can be tiring for men to keep assuring a woman with low self-esteem how great she is just to make her feel better. Men admire women who do not seek approval from other people to feel good about themselves. Men want women who know their worth, know what they want, know they are beautiful in their own way and take pride on who they are.  But being confident is different from overbearing. Confident women are sure of themselves and their capabilities but they respect the pride of other people too.  Being confident is one of the qualities that men find attractive in women. A confident woman is highly attractive to most men.

An appreciative woman. Men want women who know how to say thank you and appreciate the people around them. If a man sees this in a woman, it will give him the feeling that this woman will appreciate him too. Most men go out of their way just to make her woman happy and it can be really frustrating not to hear even a simple thank you or appreciation like “I enjoyed the dinner you planned”. Showing gratitude or appreciation to people around you is one of the qualities that men find attractive in women.

A loyal woman. Most men looking for a long-term relationship look for loyalty in a woman. If you are loyal to your friends and to people who matters to you, this gives a good signal to men. Being loyal gives a man the security that whatever happens you will stick with him. Women who know how to be loyal do not get swayed easily by other men and this can be very attractive to most men.

A woman with a great sense of humor. Men like women who enjoy a good laugh. This does not mean that you have to crack a joke every minute you are with him but when a man says that he likes women with great sense of humor, it means that he likes women who have that wittiness and intelligence to make him laugh and most importantly someone who laughs at his jokes. Although we all must take life seriously, most men find women who worry too much and do not know how to laugh unattractive.  The ability to share a good laugh is one of the qualities that men find attractive in women. It can be really nice to be with someone whom you can share a good laugh.

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3 Ridiculous Tricks to Make Him Ache with Pure Love for You

Step 1 – Trigger a sense of positive discomfort in his mind.
You must be thinking – Wait a minute! How can discomfort be positive and why would I want to make a guy uncomfortable?

Well, there is an age old psychological concept which states that as humans we value the very thing we have to work hard for. Men specially are genetically programmed to value the very thing which isn’t easy to attain.

Now I am not saying that you should play hard to get and make him run after you. That concept is a myth and can actually turn a guy completely off.

What I am talking about is a cocktail of pleasure and discomfort mixed in together. It basically means that you make him feel 90% pleasure mixed with 10% discomfort.

This cocktail creates an intense sense of passion within a man’s body that is just hard to control.
This tunes up his emotional intensity towards you and he feels this hot, raw and intense love for you which is addictive and almost irreplaceable.

In fact, this concept works so well that he will actually enjoy chasing you and will get a special kind of feeling which will get him addicted to pursuing you.

I know it sounds weird right now, but I’ll show you  a super easy way to put it into action soon. But before that, let me get to our second step.

Step 2 – Re-frame his point of view…
Have you ever seen a guy who went completely nuts over a certain girl even though she wasn’t that good looking or smart and did you find yourself thinking – What does he see in her? She isn’t even
that special.

The important point to note here is that in your point of view, she might not be that attractive or special but that specific guy is seeing her

through a completely different lens. He is seeing things in her that you might not see at all.
Now the good news is that you can use re-framing to change a guy’s views about you, and make him find you absolutely attractive, irresistible and exceptionally special even if you aren’t that good
looking, skinny or smart.

You see, by making small easy adjustments in your personality, you can make a guy think that you are one of the most interesting women he’s ever come across, and not only that, you can actually make him see you as this special, one in a million woman he would be lucky to have in his life.

I’ll soon show you a super easy method to re-frame his view of you completely, and establish yourself as his only and best possible choice. But before that, let me give you the 3rd and final step.
Step 3 – Appeal to the masculine part of him.

Every guy is born with a protector instinct, his job in the “early man days” used to be to protect the family from predators.

If you can awaken the masculine part of a man completely, he would feel a gut level desire to protect  you and do nice things for you.

Once this part awakens, he will go out of his way to do loving things for you and will even feel obligated and responsible for your well being. In fact, this is one of the most little known secrets to truly making a man fall in love with you.

Most women feel that in order to get a man to love them, they should do a lot of nice things, dress sexy etc, but the reality is that, all that can actually repulse him.

Since every man is a born hunter, he is a provider  at his very core and he will feel a lot of pleasure when you let him take care of you by appealing to the masculine part of him.

Now you must be thinking – Alright I understand that I have to trigger a sense of positive discomfort in his mind, re-frame his point of view and awaken the masculine part of him but I am still a little confused because I don’t know exactly what to do.

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