Dating in your early 20s is very different from dating in your late
20s. When you were younger, you were carefree and concerned only about
the present and not bothered about the future. You were still figuring
out who you are and don’t know where you want to be in your life. Fast
forward and now you are in your late 20s. Dating changes as women get
older.
So what it’s like dating in your late 20s?
The Pros
You are wiser now. Unlike in your younger days,
dating in your late 20s is better because you are wiser. You know
yourself better, you know what you want and don’t want. You don’t settle
for someone just because he’s the only one available. You know who to
date and how to date. You know why you are dating and can see clearly
what future you want with him. You clearly know what kind of
relationship you want in your life.
You are not playing games anymore. Dating in your
late 20s means that you are more serious and not into playing games
anymore. In general, as women get older, they look for someone more real
and lasting. You are done with playing games. You know what you want so
you don’t play with someone else’s time and emotions when you are not
interested. If you are interested, you let him know instead of wasting
each other’s time. You want to make a connection with him as soon as
possible than waste time chasing each other.
You are ready to settle down. You are no longer into
flings and one night stands. Gone are the days when dating is only just
for fun. You are done with “dating just for the sake of dating”. You do
not want a meaningless relationship, you are looking for someone to
grow old with and you are ready to settle down. Dating in your late 20s
is about looking for someone who could be your lifetime partner.
You are not idealistic anymore. When you were in
your early 20s, you were into guys who were tall, dark and handsome. Now
that you are mature, you are more realistic and realized that dating in
your late 20s is not all about looks. Guys with awesome looks could
also have great personalities but you’ve started to see that guys who
don’t fit the ideal looks women are dying for also have great
personalities. You started to realize that you’ve deprived yourself of a
wide selection of men in your younger days by just concentrating on
their looks.
You are more comfortable with your sexuality. Dating
in your younger days helped you discover your sexual needs. Now, you
already know what you want in bed and how you want to be treated or
respected in the bedroom. You are more mature now and more comfortable
with your sexuality. Men are more vocal with their sexual needs but now
you realized that your sexual needs are also important. You have that
courage now to let your man know what your needs sexually to help him
meet them. Dating in your late 20s, makes you more comfortable with
your sexuality.
The Cons
The pressure of getting married. Dating in your late
20s may mean people around you or those close to you are expecting you
to settle down and have children. Most of your friends are already
married, having kids and starting a family. Only a handful of people in
your circle are still single including you so people around you keeps
asking you questions such as “Why are you not married yet?” “Why are you
still single?” Although you are already in the marrying age, don’t let
these people get into you. Do not rush but continue dating until you
find Mr. Right. But of course you should be prepared to answer those
questions in gatherings, in meeting old friends and relatives.
Meeting a potential date or partner is a little challenging.
When you were younger, you can easily get a date from school parties
but now that you are in your late 20s, it’s not that easy especially if
you have a job that hinders your social life. Dating in your late 20s
can be challenging that you tend to look at other ways to find a
potential partner like online dating or being set-up on a blind date by
trusted friends or relatives. Doing community works, engaging in sports
and other hobbies can also be very helpful in finding a possible date or
partner.
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