Men are initially attracted to physical beauty. Who is not? Even
women go crazy for handsome guys. But after satisfying your eyes, then
what’s next? Men who are looking for long-term relationships look for
more than physical beauty. You will be surprised to know that what most
men are looking for in a woman has nothing to do with looks, boobs or
body measurements. If a man seriously want to commit and want a lasting
relationship, he wants a woman of quality. Become a quality woman and
you will find a quality man.
To be able to become a quality woman, you must know the traits that a
woman of quality must possess. So what are those qualities?
To become a quality woman you must know how to listen. Men do not
want to be nagged when they have problems or when something is bothering
them but they want someone who will just listen to them and that means a
woman who really knows how to listen. It takes time for men to be able
to verbalize what’s troubling them, what’s on their minds or what they
feel. They need time to process everything before they can decide to
talk about it. While he’s processing everything, he will appreciate it
more if you will let him know that you are there and ready to listen
when he’s ready to talk about it. Men like women who are supportive and
know how to really listen.
To become a quality woman you have to be happy and fulfilled. It is
important that you are accomplished and fulfilled as a person. You enjoy
your job and the things that you do. It can be a great burden for men
if you will look for that happiness and fulfillment in your
relationships. It is true that relationships do give us happiness and
fulfillment but on your own you have to be someone who is fulfilled and
happy about who you are.
To become a quality woman you have to be a good cook. There is a
saying that “the only way to get to a man’s heart is through his
stomach”, although we know that it’s not the only way, we do know that
it’s one of the ways to win a man’s heart. If a woman can feed her man
with a good meal, it is an indication how nurturing she is and it is a
sign that she will be a good wife and mother. The effort to learn how to
be a good cook and the effort to cook for him can definitely make his
heart flutter in appreciation of your thoughtfulness.
To become a quality woman you must know how to laugh. A woman with a
good sense of humor is definitely attractive and men want to be around
them. Life is already full of stress and worries so why would he choose
to be with someone who is too serious, uptight and do not know how to
share a good laugh? Stop being a worry freak and lighten up. Learn to
laugh and throw some good jokes.
To become a quality woman you have to be comfortable with yourself
including your flaws. With the advancement of science, everything can be
changed now. Most men prefer more real women who are comfortable with
their own skin and their flaws. Most men find women who are not bothered
having small cup size or a not so perfect nose admirable. Most men
still want to bring home to their moms that simple girl next door, the
kind of girl who loves to smile and her great personality outshines her
flaws. This kind of woman focus more on the things she have and the
things she can do best than the things she cannot do or don’t have.
To become a quality woman you must be caring and loving. Saying “I
Love You” is a good thing but words without actions will not work. Men
want women who do not only gospel about love but who actually show how
to be caring and loving. A woman who go out of her way to care for
someone is really admirable. Being kind and caring to the people around
you is an indication how loving and caring you are and these are the
qualities most men are looking for.
To become a quality woman you have to know how to compromise. Men
admire women who are willing to find the middle ground to find a
solution acceptable to both sides. Men find this quality more important
than any physical beauty. Women who are willing to compromise are more
attractive and men can see themselves having a happier and lasting
relationship with women of this quality.
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